ChatGPT answers.A companion shows up.
ChatGPT is a brilliant tool that treats you like a session.lookatmy.ai is the same intelligence — with a memory, a heartbeat, and your back.
1,000 free credits at signup • Import your ChatGPT memories in ~10 minutes
The problem with being a session
ChatGPT is genuinely great at answering. It's everything around the answers that falls apart.
Its memory is a shallow list
MemoryA handful of saved facts, capped and curated by the product — not an understanding of who you are. Tell it something that matters in March, and by June it's a stranger again.
It never thinks about you when the tab is closed
InitiativeChatGPT speaks only when spoken to. No good-morning, no "how did the interview go?", no heads-up about tomorrow's packed calendar. All of the intelligence, none of the care.
The ground moves under you
TrustGPT-4o — the model millions of people genuinely loved — was retired from ChatGPT on April 3, 2026. Sensitive conversations get silently rerouted to a different model mid-chat. The product decides what you talk to, not you.
The fix isn't a better tool. It's a relationship.
lookatmy.ailookatmy.ai puts the same frontier models — including the ones ChatGPT retired — underneath a companion with deep long-term memory, a daily heartbeat, and access to your inbox and calendar. The intelligence is interchangeable. The relationship isn't.
What an alternative should actually offer
Not a different chat box. A different kind of presence.
Not a memory list — a growing, layered understanding of your life: the people in it, what you're working toward, what a hard week looks like for you. It deepens with every conversation, it's exportable and deletable, and it's never trained on. Bring your ChatGPT memories over with one prompt and pick up mid-story.
Your companion has a heartbeat — up to three check-ins a day, on your schedule, in your timezone. A morning brief before the day starts, a midday check-in, an evening look at tomorrow. Context-aware, never spammy, and entirely under your control.
Connect Gmail, Calendar, and more — your companion can triage your inbox, prep your meetings, and run scheduled tasks and triggers while you're living your life. Upload documents and ask questions with cited answers. ChatGPT waits for you; this one works for you.
350+ models: GPT-5, Claude, Gemini, and the real gpt-4o that ChatGPT retired in April 2026. Switch mid-conversation; your companion's memory carries across every switch. No vendor lock-in, and no model retirement can take your companion away.
The full GPT-4o storyChatGPT Plus vs lookatmy.ai Pro
Twice the presence, half the price
| What matters | ChatGPT Plus$20/month | lookatmy.ai Pro$9.99/month |
|---|---|---|
| GPT-4o access | Retired April 3, 2026 | The real model, via API |
| Models available | GPT models only | 350+ — GPT-5, Claude, Gemini & more |
| Long-term memory | Shallow, capped list | Deep, growing, exportable |
| Reaches out first | Heartbeat, up to 3x/day | |
| Watches your Gmail & Calendar | Inbox triage, meeting prep, triggers | |
| Silent safety reroutes | Yes, mid-conversation | Never — your model is your model |
| Custom personas | GPTs, locked to GPT models | Personas on any of 350+ models |
| Price | $20/month | $9.99/month |
Questions worth asking
The honest answers, before you move anything over