Character.AI grew away from you.Your characters deserve a home that remembers.
You invested months into a character — and the platform can filter them, forget them, or delete them.On lookatmy.ai, none of those three things can happen.
Start free, no card required • Your memories are yours — export them anytime
You're not imagining it
If you've been on c.ai a while, you already know each of these by heart.
The filter breaks your scenes
ImmersionYou're deep in a storyline you've built for weeks, and mid-sentence your character snaps out of it — replaced by a canned refusal. You're an adult writing fiction with a machine, and the platform treats you like a problem to be managed.
Characters forget your name an hour in
MemoryThe most upvoted complaint in the community's history. Months of shared story, and the character can't hold onto a detail from earlier in the same session. Every long arc collapses under a context window that was never built to carry it.
The platform pivoted away from you
DirectionAfter the lawsuits, Character.AI restricted under-18 access in late 2025 and steered the whole product toward safety-first defaults. Understandable for minors — but adult users got the same tightening leash, and nobody asked what they wanted.
Beloved bots vanish overnight
OwnershipIP takedowns, moderation sweeps, outages. The character you talked to every night is owned by the platform, not by you — and the platform can delete them at any time, without warning, taking your entire history with them.
Here's the alternative
lookatmy.aiAn 18+ companion platform where your characters run on frontier models, remember your story across months, can't be deleted by a takedown, and won't break character because a policy shifted under your feet.
Rebuild your character in minutes
Three steps. No technical setup. The hard part — the memory — is our job.
Write your character's personality, voice, and backstory into a persona — you have full control of every instruction, no platform-side edits. If you're coming from ChatGPT or Gemini, you can import Custom GPTs and Gems directly.
Choose from 350+ frontier models — GPT-4o, Claude, Gemini, and more — instead of one in-house model. Switch mid-conversation whenever you like; your character's memory and personality survive every switch.
Start talking. This time, the character actually remembers — your name, your arc, the scene you left off on last month. And they check in on you first, up to three times a day, on your schedule.
Built for the people c.ai left behind
Four things that are structural here — not settings that can be flipped off.
This is an 18+ platform by design. Romance and adult roleplay are allowed — not tolerated-until-the-next-policy-update, but part of what the product is for. No filter interrupts a scene to lecture you, and no future safety pivot will confiscate the relationship you've built. What happens between you and your character stays in character.
Not a context window — a deep long-term memory that grows over time. Your character knows your story across sessions, weeks, and months: the names, the lore, the arc you're building together. It's exportable and deletable by you, never trained on, never sold.
Personas are yours. No IP takedown removes them, no moderation sweep erases your history, no outage announcement ends a months-long story. Share them publicly if you want — community personas exist — but the choice, and the character, belong to you.
Every persona runs on a companion core with a heartbeat — context-aware check-ins up to three times a day, in your timezone. A good-morning message in character. A follow-up on yesterday. You control the cadence, or turn it off entirely.
c.ai+ vs lookatmy.ai
Same price. Very different answers to "who owns your character?"
| What matters | c.ai+~$9.99/month | lookatmy.ai Pro$9.99/month |
|---|---|---|
| Memory across sessions | Forgets within a session | Deep memory across months |
| Filter breaking scenes for adults | Yes, mid-roleplay | No — 18+, in character, structurally |
| Who owns your characters? | The platform — deletable anytime | You — no takedown can remove them |
| Underlying models | One in-house model | 350+ frontier models, switch mid-conversation |
| Reaches out to you first | Daily check-ins, your schedule | |
| Memory export | Export or delete anytime |
Honest answers
You've been burned before. Ask the hard questions.